Monica is from the West Midlands, and is currently working in the charity sector.
Nature lover, bookworm extraordinaire, and in hot pursuit of the white rabbit!
A sense of belonging, identity, community – these are innate human needs. From childhood to adulthood, we can see how these things are very dear and important to us. It is evident that they shape us and are something we long for and strive to maintain.
Although Allah (SWT) has created us all unique in our individuality, where we have our own identity, purpose, and beauty, we also have a shared identity, we are a Ummah; we are the Ummah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW).
We are fortunate that we have Islam as our foundation to mould us, guide us, and empower us. Alhamdulillah.
Subhan’Allah, it is also the beauty and wisdom of the Most Beautiful and Wise One, that He created us in this way; Allah (SWT) has wired us in a way where we desire and thrive from a brotherhood, or sisterhood, a community, companionship, and togetherness.
An integral part of Islam is unity and solidarity, supporting and helping one another; we are stronger as one, and we can accomplish remarkable things on a united front.
How amazing does it feel to come together and pray in a masjid as a congregation, or gather to celebrate Eid, or work together on a charity initiative to support those who are in need and suffering around the world.
Another simple example could be in a workplace, each person brings a different strength and skill, and collectively, the organisation thrives. Each person is invaluable, and what is more, as a team, members can step in for another if needed, and work together in harmony to accomplish wider, collective goals.
Our ultimate goal is Jannah. It is not a destination we should seek alone, as believers, we should strive to reach it together, attaining this greatest success collectively, In shā’ Allāh.
“None of you [truly] believes until he loves for his brother that which he loves for himself.” (Hadith 13, 40 Hadith an-Nawawi)
“And hold firmly to the rope of Allāh all together and do not become divided. And remember the favour of Allāh upon you… and He brought your hearts together and you became, by His favour, brothers.” (Qur’an 3:103)
For many of us, our identity is shaped by our upbringing, family, and culture. While these are important parts of who we are, it is common for certain cultural traditions and rituals to conflict with Islam. Sometimes, these cultural practices are even mistaken for Islamic teachings, when in reality they have no basis in the religion.
Culture is a part of us and is not a bad thing; it is cause for us to rejoice, celebrate, and hold close, and Islam does emphasise the importance of keeping ties and good company. Allah (SWT) has also informed us He created diverse cultures/ethnicities, etc, so we may understand and know each other.
“O mankind, indeed, We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another.” (Qur’an 49:13)
Islam came to liberate us, Allah (SWT) favoured us with a wondrous faith, alhamdulillah, and even centuries ago, for example, the cultural practice of burying female in infancy, neglecting women’s rights, these were issues which were abolished through Islam. Alhamdulillah.
It is our duty and honour to continue to seek knowledge, and be aware of what is Islam and what isn’t.
Another reason it is important to be aware of what constitutes Islam and what does not, is because of the teachings and example we pass down to our children and younger generations. Whether we are parents, relatives, teachers, we have been placed in a blessed position to instil in the children around us faith, and principles, as they will be the future generations, who by the power and will of Allah, will carry on the legacy of Islam.
Islam places great importance on seeking knowledge and understanding the truth.
When we deepen our knowledge of our faith and learn to distinguish between what is truly Islam and what is cultural, we not only experience the beauty of Islam but also earn immense rewards from the Almighty, In sha Allah!
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